The \"Share something about yourself\" Character Building Activity

Betrayer · 2009-07-10T18:17:39+00:00

Recently, I've been thinking that there's really some part of everybody that they keep inside of them - and it's unhealthy to keep things like that inside wi...

Betrayer

u4ria;46462 wrote
ok, ill let you into the little world of u4ria

1/ apart from my family and few freinds i dont care about anything else because as ive learned over the last 30 years nothing else is worth worrying about.

2/ i have a wicked sense of humour which can upset most people but again i dont care because people should relise life is life and joke is a joke. (i can totaly remove humor from for real life)

3/ i love my children and dont know what i would do with out them all BUT sometimes i wish me and wife had never had them because life and this planet is total shit and at the moment the future looks very bleak.

4/ i live by these simple saying's "never look and gift horse in the mouth and nothing in life is free"

5/ I can be very random and will say/type things without thinking about it untill someones goes totaly ape shit because i offended them, then i just dont care.... look at point 2.

I am surrounded by grown-ups,very weird lol..hey is there anyway i can try out for moderating?just curious.

Betrayer

u4ria;46478 wrote
I dont know how RJD runs mod recruiting here on the board, but personaly id say lets get to know you first, what type of person you are and how you handle people, also how active you are and in what ways.
But thats the way i use to handle recruitment on another board and at the end of the day RJD's the big cheif around here.

I see, i already meet all the requirements, so all i gotta do is prove it to the chief...very well,and thanks.

Betrayer

I'm happy you all are sharing stuff you consider embarrasing:angel:
This damn thread should get sticky already:keitai:

Betrayer

u4ria;46856 wrote
The correct way to ask for the thread to get a sticky would be to ask nicely!

Saying "damn" is some sort of infraction now?I opologize for the use of the word though, anyways, thanks for deleting the recent posts between tom and I.

Ilasir

Since I'm new here, I thought I'd try out this thread, which seems to be aimed at promoting a more open community. Which is something I generally support.

I am very nervous and shy in real life. I have to plan things out in detail to feel comfortable, but I usually forget the plan at just the wrong time because I get so nervous.
I have the most powerful stage-fright you can imagine. I am physically incapable of speaking in front of large numbers of people, or around people I do not know well.
I've always found fansubbing to be fascinating, and even tried getting a group together for a one-shot sub of the E7 movie for fun. We were doing great except for having the obvious trouble of finding a really good translator who had the time and the inclination to work with us. Ended up quitting after GG put out their "Nanashi" sub.

hentaifever69

Things Will Surely Get Better. :D

hentaifever69

Well I Am Who I Am.:cebollita19: I Act According To The Surrounding. Being On 24/7 Is A Pain.I Have No Crush On No One Because In The End You Get Crushed.! :22: I Think We Should Turn This Thread Into A Fun One. Btw Shiroii-yuri, You have lots of nice friends on ftp-anime :D . And Don't Say That You Are Not Attractive. You may have ppl who find you attractive.It Is Not What You Have On The Outside that count as long as there is something good in the inside.Ppl will look up to you.XDWell Next Time We Should Make An Online Birthday Party. :cracker:Enough with my lame talks i am out of this thread.

hyper_shadow

I've never seen a thread like this before, here goes...

1) I took up martial arts in order to seriously damage my dad for wrongdoings to my mom when I was a kid (that shit never leaves you). I haven't the will to hate him like I used to, but it's still there, the fact I come from his blood is shameful enough to me.
2)I'm incredibly strong now and very scared that one day I might hurt someone I care for. It makes it difficult for me to form attachments to people.
3)I have a really bad problem with pride. One that actually led to me losing my menkyo rank, renshi sho rank, shinken retainership and privileges at my dojo and having to work my ass of to get em back.
4)I am very tightly wound. Most of the time I can keep it all together in a ine balancing act and work it to my advantage. But when the springs pop... well it's not so nice.

As for the good things:

1)I am immensely loyal and caring to those who are close to me, even if I appear aloof to them at times.
2)I have a lot of pride, it's a double edged sword, but I will not give in on anything I commit myself to.
3)I actually enjoy acting like I'm still 15. Loads of people are all about this 'maturity' business. What for? You only live once! And you've never lived if you aint done parkour! XD
4)I'm a workaholic. Once did 28 hours straight just so we could get the reports done that were needed for next day sales at my company.

So there you go folks. A little surface knowledge to me.

Jackblu

I guess everyone has their own struggles, but here are a few of mine:

I find it hard to come to terms with America's current president, not because he is black, but because he is destroying everything this nation once called FREEDOM. It's like I don't care if he falls off the face of the earth.
Marriage is much like a Rose, beautiful to look at. Some say it smells good hence "wake up and smell the roses!" But hurts when touching a thorn. this has been my conclusion since getting married 08/17/08(wooHoo!) What i mean is..... It's tough living your life for someone else and not yourself. I find this hard to do since society tells you to life for yourself.
Last but not least.....i struggle with not like Christmas music, love the theme just not the music itself. The radio shows no mercy and PLAYS it from THANKSGIVING to NEW YEARS!!!!{everyone run the christmas monster is coming AHHHHAhahahahHAHAHAH}

well enough for now maybe some more later. :)
:romance:

Meri

hentaifever69;139812 wrote
Well I Am Who I Am.:cebollita19: I Act According To The Surrounding. Being On 24/7 Is A Pain.I Have No Crush On No One Because In The End You Get Crushed.! :22: I Think We Should Turn This Thread Into A Fun One. Btw Shiroii-yuri, You have lots of nice friends on ftp-anime :D . And Don't Say That You Are Not Attractive. You may have ppl who find you attractive.It Is Not What You Have On The Outside that count as long as there is something good in the inside.Ppl will look up to you.XDWell Next Time We Should Make An Online Birthday Party. :cracker:Enough with my lame talks i am out of this thread.

You really are something else :P

Online I do have "friends" but it's not the same you know...
Mostly it's very difficult to build on an online friendship...
I have only 1 person I'd consider a real friend but it's all falling apart...
You meet at some point and then you both go on with your lives...

But I don't mean to be depressing :)
I just hope in the future things will get better

Meri

shiroii-yuri;139529 wrote
3) I have practically no social skills. I offend people every day without even realizing it, most of the time. It's mostly because of my bluntness, but I've also found that some of my traits just offend people, after asking them why they don't like me; I'm Wiccan, white, don't like Obama (which MUST mean I'm racist), have frizzy hair, am not attractive, overweight, don't like stupid people, don't have nice clothes because I'm poor.
4) I have so few friends that this year there was no point in me having a sweet sixteen.

This thread is a bit depressing..:worried:

I hear you...
I can completly agree with your third point...
I lack social skills completly... I have borderline and I am autistic, but yet very smart...
I love wicca and alternative things such as working with energy...
I also am a bit overweight cause at the moment can't afford to live healthy.
(Luckily that will change in a bit :D )
I have no friends whatsoever and never had any...
My 13th birthday was such a disaster I never had one afterwards...
When I should be out partying for my sweet sixteen I was in hospital getting stitches for self injury.
No sweet 17, sweet 18, sweet 19 or sweet 20 either...
Sweet 20 was a suicide attempt :(
This whole thing is really depressing...
At the age of 19 I had to quit school because I couldn't stand it anymore.
It all got to much being teased and hated every day over and over.

But!
For people that do know me I'm kind and compassionate.
I used to have my own forums to help people who were in need of psychological support.
I live with my boyfriend (who's way older then me cause I find men of my own age immature I guess)
And because we fell head over heels in love ofcourse ;)
We've been together for over a year and live together a year end of this month.

A lot of people think I am annoying cause I'm always way to active and speak my mind without thinking ahead.
I also have a very loud voice which volume I can't quite control.
So I'm always way too loud...

I wish I could think of any more good stuff :P
I still hate myself, but it's getting better and better bit by bit :)

(For the record I'm female and I'm 20, my birthday was january 16th)

Meri

Time to share something new!

I have one brother. He's 2 years younger than me.
We never got along. We used to fight all the time.
The only times we didn't fight was when we were playing pokémon XD
Or another game like lord of the rings.
(but eventually it always turned out in a fight since I always tried to boss over him)

Meri

It's not that odd to find so many people depressed these days.
Life is hard if you don't go with the flow, or better if you CAN'T.
But however hard it is you just have to think of yourself first.
I don't really know where you're from Quirk but hang in there.
It took me 14 years (of therapy) to finally get a bit better.
But in the end it was all worth it.

Meri

I just had chinese food!
I feel a lot better than this morning
Though I'm still not 100%

Meri

May 28th me and my bf lived togehter for a year ^^

Meri

What Sun?
I hope you don't mean you never went out of your house since then...
Cause that would be bad... And would explain why you get depressed...
Humans need sunlight!

Well it's not easy for me to find anyone that accepts me just like that either...
I met my ex bf's and my current bf through the internet...
Remember I'm still autistic, and I also had 14 years of therapy...
I'm still not very comfortable with just putting myself out there...

Meri

Meri;150321 wrote
What Sun?
I hope you don't mean you never went out of your house since then...
Cause that would be bad... And would explain why you get depressed...
Humans need sunlight!

Not that I'm one to talk...
I used to lock myself up in my room everday...
It's a never ending circle...
You go to your room cause you feel depressed,
but you get even more depressed by not doing anything you want to...

Meri

I thought people needed money to live in Canada...
At least, to migrate there...
It probably doesn't apply to the local people...
You know... Not everything resolves around money...
Just try to be more happy first. Get your life back on track.
Girls will follow
:)

Wow that must have been rough... All those injuries...
But I think you should still go out and find a new hobby!
And be more careful too maybe...
:relieved:

Meri

He does NOT ... XD

I've been tired lately

Meri

I'm not feeling very well today...
I've got this blown up feeling in my stomach...

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