Ways to handle weariness

Nightsky

So I really need your advice now friends. I really lack energy and don't have any clue how to raise my spirits. So if you have anymethod to these situations please share them with me :bow:

rjd22

Hey welcome back (DG) wasen't it?

Long time no see ^^

rjd22

All fine still we always miss the old members who don't come back

brokenhands

My therapy consists of 3 different things:

Long walks
Washing dishes (for some strange reason warm suds calm me down)
Folding clothes fresh from the dryer (corny, but it works)

As for the lifting spirits thing. Can't help you, I'm bored to tears, and a couple of mixed drinks or beer are what I'm using.

brokenhands

You could always shower with a cute female friend.

I'm still trying to talk cloud into joining me. Maybe someday she'll take up the invitation crosses fingers

Oops cloud, looks like you dropped the soap, lemme help you look for it. nudges from behind

brokenhands

Stop living in the third dimension. What you are today, is not what you'll be tomorrow. I've been in the funk you're in, hell still in there at times.

Usually all you need is a change of scenery and purpose. For me it was driving trucks, then going to strip clubs, then seeing how miserable all my married friends were.

I've got it pretty good, just wish they'd come out with a better fix for my eye situation. Then I'd go back to reading books.

brokenhands

Xyw13;33816 wrote
LOL, so you are 2D? muhahaha

Sorry guess I should elaborate.

In 3D you got height, length, and width. But a 3D object doesn't move, that's where the 4th dimension time comes in. You cannot move without time, everytime you change position time is involved.

prepare for long explanation

As an object is moving through time it gets altered by other objects moving in time. What an object is in the past, is not what it will be in the future.

Another problem is perspective. Depending on the plane of reference of an object(s) things look very different.

Night sees himself as depressed and feeling worthless at this time. In the future that changes, from a different perspective that changes.

I use the contexts yesterday, today, and tomorrow to explain these things.

Yesterday I was 400lbs, broke, and blind. Today I'm 275lbs, got a little cash, and decent vision. Tomorrow ???

One thing is certain for all mortal flesh, tomorrow we die. So while we move through today and tomorrow, let's live it up. That's why the cliche of "it's the journey, not the destination that's important" is so profound.

Finally, it's about perspective. From Night's viewpoint there's no point in going on, the journey seems futile. But he's being watched by others who see him from above, below, and all around. They see he's almost to a critical point in the journey, or there's an oasis around the bend, and they tell him to go on.

And that's why I'm telling him he's 3D, in 4D things are always changing, and nothing is certain.

brokenhands

Xyw13;33868 wrote
Good work :D:D
But!!
I have to disagree with your explanation. Point itself doesn't have any dimension, but moving it, you make a line, which is 1dimensional object(length), now, if you move a line, you make surface, which is 2D. Time is involved and is not taken as another dimension ;) And You can move without time... Teoretically... But you can :genji:

Theoretically with a wormhole, warping space, or FTL travel yes, but so far it's just theory.

When I say adding dimensions I mean mathematically. When working with vectors the three dimensions are position functions, and the independent variable is time.

brokenhands

Xyw13;33872 wrote
Aaah.... no need for that. If you reach the lightspeed, the time stops for you, so you are practically travelling without time

Yes that's true, but you didn't specified that, so I misonderstood. :)

Practically being the operative word.

As for the last part, sorry about that, sometimes my mind works faster than I can type, so I have a tendency to forget certain things.

brokenhands

Sorry, Nightsky we babbled a bit, but are you seeing the rose garden yet?

brokenhands

Engineering solves almost anything, science just has a bad habit of asking questions, and wanting someone else to answer them.

Science is like that annoying girlfriend that asks, "What are you thinking?"

Engineering is stupid enough to answer the question honestly, that's why engineering is a lonely craft.

brokenhands

Xyw13;34989 wrote
Ehhhh? That has nothing to do with weariness!!! I tried!!

It may have nothing to do with wearines per se, but your response denotes frustration, which can be a sign of weariness.

Anyhow, just responding to Night when he said "science explains everything"

Truth is everything is relative.

Vladimir

Hmm...well assuming you're not doing anything you're not supposed to do (and you're doing the things you're supposed to do), how about finding some new hobbies? Works for me :P
I used to be very tired and bored...but then I tried finding new things to do, new things to learn, etc. :P

Mich

hm a good idea is that u take a break and go to spa or massage! or just rest out and take 2 days off ur work/school. :)

Mich

of course, asian massage is better than classical ^^

Andrew

Nightsky;33420 wrote
So I really need your advice now friends. I really lack energy and don't have any clue how to raise my spirits. So if you have anymethod to these situations please share them with me :bow:

This is almost always attributed to "environmental depression" - which is almost always a symptom of an insufficient diet, low levels of physical activity, and low serotonin levels in the brain due to an unsatisfactory social life.

Andrew

rjd22;33946 wrote
Hey welcome back (DG) wasen't it?

Long time no see ^

haha thanks how've things been round 'ere?

Nightsky

I'll thank thy for the answers. :bow:Walking could be nice but sience I can't do it I won't. Moving outside is nice if I truly find some nice place to explore. I've tried to figure out new hobbies too but ideas needed there too. If my cute female friends would shower with me I'd not have the problem :) Most of my friends have something else going on so it makes me wonder that do they want to be my friends.

Energy drinks keeps me going but it won't take away the boredom. I allmost use them too much.Sleeping is nice but I can't sleep too much now days. I myself wonder why but I have no answer for that either.

I know Newgrounds all most better than the back of my hands.

I've been actively searching for a job but no luck there.

Nightsky

BH nice explanation. :D Science: "It solves allmost anything or does it really?" There's nothing that X and BH can't turn upside down and under@ .@ :) and thank you all too. Nice ideas that I'm going to give it a try.

But if someone thinks up an idea that should be here post it. Someone else too might find help from here. :bow:

Nightsky

I just hope that I'll be able to sleep more